Virtual visitation has become an increasingly popular way for separated or divorced parents to stay connected with their children. To truly utilize the power of this opportunity to support the parent-child bond, virtual visits need to be more than just a video call. They need to be engaging and meaningful. With the right resources and a little creativity, virtual parenting time can be just as special and valuable as time spent face-to-face.
For example, parents can also create simple traditions that give children something to look forward to. For example, “pajama story night” or “Friday game hour” can help build routine and positive associations with the time spent together. Reading together is also a timeless option that works well over video. Many parents find that keeping a few of the same books in both households allows them to take turns reading aloud or even act out the stories.
What about online resources?
Additionally, using shared digital platforms designed specifically for families can be an engaging way to make virtual visitation time memorable. Apps like Caribu, Google Meet and Zoom offer video chat features along with the ability to read books together, draw pictures and play games. These interactive features can help keep younger children focused and interested, making the visit feel more like quality time than just a conversation.
Screen sharing features can also be used to explore educational websites, take virtual tours of museums or zoos or work on homework together. For older kids, virtual visits can include playing online games together, watching a movie at the same time using services like Teleparty or collaborating on a shared playlist or photo album. These activities not only create fun moments but also help maintain shared interests and build stronger emotional ties.
Virtual visitation approaches should reflect a child’s age, attention span and personality. What works for one family might not work for another, and that’s okay.