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Emotional support for children amidst divorce

On Behalf of | Oct 17, 2023 | Family Law

According to a recent study by the American Psychological Association, 40-50% of marriages in the United States end in divorce.

When those divorces involve children, those children need emotional support while going through this transition.

Create a safe space for expression

Foster an environment where your children feel comfortable expressing their thoughts and emotions. Listen attentively without judgment, allowing them to speak freely about their concerns.

Acknowledge your children’s emotions. Reassure them that it is normal to feel sadness, anger, confusion and even relief.

Maintain routine and consistency

Maintaining a structured routine can provide a sense of stability and security during a time of upheaval. Ensure that basic daily activities like meals, bedtime and school remain consistent.

Minimize additional major changes, such as relocating or changing schools, during this transitional period. Stability in familiar environments can offer a sense of continuity and reassurance.

Promote healthy coping mechanisms

Encourage your children to engage in activities that provide a healthy outlet for their emotions, such as sports, art, music or spending time with friends.

Demonstrate constructive ways to manage stress and emotions, showing them that it is possible to navigate difficult situations positively.

Foster a positive co-parenting relationship

Collaborate with your ex-partner to establish consistent rules, expectations and consequences. Presenting a united front can reduce confusion and anxiety for your children.

Refrain from speaking negatively about your ex-partner in front of your children. This helps prevent them from feeling torn between loyalties.

Seeking professional support when needed

Professional support from therapists or counselors experienced in family dynamics can provide children with a safe space to process their feelings and develop coping strategies. Keep a vigilant eye on your children’s behavior, looking for signs of prolonged sadness, withdrawal or changes in academic performance. Seek professional help if needed.

Supporting your children emotionally during a divorce is key to their well-being and long-term development. Remember, your unwavering support is the foundation upon which they can rebuild their lives.